You’ve probably heard of foot reflexology, where massaging various parts of the feet energetically stimulates or relaxes the various organs of the body reflected in those parts. Well, have you ever heard of genital reflexology? According to traditional Chinese medicine, there are specific areas of and around the penis and vagina that correspond with the… [Read More…]
EXPAND YOUR CAPACITY FOR PLEASURE
One morning while we were making love, I hit upon something I never knew existed… I bumped up against my pleasure threshold! Whoa! Too intense! I contracted and backed off, which I’m sure I’ve done before — unconsciously. The difference this time was I could see it. I couldn’t quite verbalize it, but my very intuitive… [Read More…]
Dance Naked in the Dark
I love to dance. I especially love partner dancing. One evening, my partner and I were in the kitchen after dinner when some evocative dance music came up on the CD that was playing in the nearby darkened living room. I invited him, a fairly good dancer who has to be in just the right… [Read More…]
For “OUT OF THE BALLPARK SEX”… do this
Remember the old baseball analogy that boys used to describe how far they got (or didn’t get) sexually with a girl? (I know this is old school – now they often just “hook up.”) Anyway, you may recall they would talk about getting to “second base,” “scoring ” or hitting a “home run.” Or they’d… [Read More…]
Here’s Where to Find Ecstasy
“The gap between your goal and where you are now can hinder you,” my instructor once said during yoga class. She was encouraging us to relax into a pose rather than force it. She went on to say that there is no feedback in that gap; the only feedback is in the present. This, of… [Read More…]